Sejenak aku ingin memutar rol film bertema ‘Organisasi’ di kepalaku. Yang tergambar hanya ada serangkaian kegiatan yang mengisi hari-hariku di enam bulan belakangan. Rekam jejakku di arena organisasi minim. Aku bukan anak OSIS di SMA. Aku tidak berafiliasi dengan organisasi pemerintah, non-pemerintah, atau pun sekedar komunitas hobi. Aku independen. #apeu

Menjelang kuliah pun aku tak ada rencana apa pun. Yang terbayang adalah aku terdaftar sebagai mahasiswi Filsafat UI, membaca buku-buku yang mampu membentuk kerangka berpikirku, sesekali mengikuti kompetisi menulis, dan datang ke seminar-seminar yang mendiskusikan isu pendidikan. Iya, rutinitasku terdengar datar.

Berorganisasi? Bukan tujuan utamaku. Haha Namun, setelah jalan tiga bulan menyandang status mahasiswi, aku semacam butuh penyeimbang. Filsafat ini ranah yang kering. Di kampus, aku fokus pada tataran mental seperti membedah konsep, menjelaskan gagasan, mencetuskan metode dan jarang bersentuhan dengan hal-hal teknis. Aku butuh tempat belajar baru, pikirku.

Semesta seolah mengafirmasi kebutuhanku. Bermodalkan rasa penasaran, aku mendaftar posisi staf pemgembangan sumber daya manusia sebuah organisasi pemuda yang namanya memang sudah familiar di telingaku. Setelah lolos seleksi berkas, aku masuk ke tahap wawancara. Aku ingat betul, ketika diwawancara aku bahkan tidak tahu samasekali apa itu SWOT—Strength, Weakness, Opportunity, and Threat. Haha. Hal ini yang membuatku tidak yakin akan diterima sebagai staf baru.

Namun, keyakinanku salah. Aku lolos tahap wawancara. Aku bersama tujuh orang lainnya diterima. Yey! Aku punya kesibukan baru selain kuliah. Haha Kekhawatiranku semula adalah aku bukan orang yang cepat akrab dengan orang lain, terlebih lagi di suasana yang baru samasekali. Aku sempat takut ini akan menjadi kendala kelak ketika bekerja sama dengan teman-teman lainnya. Akan tetapi, kecemasanku gugur. Relasi antarpengurus—baik lama maupun baru—jauh dari relasi yang hierarkial. Artinya, kami semua setara. Tidak ada senioritas yang kadang menjadi momok bagi orang yang pertama kali ingin berorganisasi.

Ekspektasiku tidak bertepuk sebelah tangan. Aku benar-benar mendapatkan banyak ketrampilan baru yang tidak aku dapatkan di ruang-ruang kuliah: manajemen pembagian waktu, menginisiasi proyek, berjejaring dengan pakar-pakar di berbagai bidang dan banyak lagi. Setiap orang di organisasi ini diberi kesempatan untuk mengembangkan dirinya. Setelah kapasitas diri diperbaiki, saatnya kami berbagi dengan rekan-rekan muda yang juga mau belajar bersama kami.

Sebagaimana organisasi pada umumnya, organisasi ini juga memiliki rencana kerja sesuai sasarannya, yaitu, anak muda. Program-program kami bertujuan mempersiapkan rekan muda yang kelak akan memimpin Indonesia. Namanya juga ‘mempersiapkan’, jangan harap hasilnya akan jadi dalam semalam. Sejak berdiri di tahun 2009, kami terus berproses. Kami pun bertumbuh. Slogan ‘perubahan’ yang organisasi ini usung terkadang memang dipandang ‘semu’, ‘jargonistik’—aku pun sebelum bergabung sempat berpikiran demikian. Akan tetapi, setelah masuk dan berkembang bersama pengurus yang lainnya, aku menyadari sesuatu: Siapa pun berhak mewujudkan kepeduliannya untuk Indonesia dengan caranya masing-masing.

Tidak ada cara tunggal yang layak disebut ‘paling benar’ dalam hal berkontribusi untuk Ibu Pertiwi. Berbagai gerakan komunitas yang tumbuh belakangan ini menandakan semangat positif untuk Indonesia yang lebih baik di segala aspek—pendidikan, kesehatan, kesetaraan gender, lingkungan, dan lain-lain. Kalau kita sama-sama bertujuan akhir untuk Indonesia yang lebih baik, apa masih perlu kita berselisih soal cara?

Yuk. Jika kamu tergerak untuk melibatkan diri dan mengenal organisasi ini lebih jauh, cek website kami di indonesianfutureleaders.org. Mari berproses bersama kami!

Youth is the time of getting, middle age of improving, and old age of spending; a negligent youth is usually attended by an ignorant middle age, and both by an empty old age.

Anne Bradstreet, the first American female poet and the first American in history to have a book of poetry published, offers her son Simon advice on life in 1664. (via explore-blog)

(via explore-blog)

Restoring Faith in Doing Big Things—that starts from courage to execute the small ones

Recently, I lost my guts in giving a try on challenging new stuffs. Too much thinking, pointless insecurity, plenty list of excuses hold me back from things I probably can achieve. It’s like I am in a state of questioning ‘where is my dream?’ ‘What’s next?’ ‘Which paths I should choose?’ and the ultimate wonder is ‘is this really what I want?’. But, two figures have just been a wake-up call. I am grateful for bumping into Anggun’s interview video on BBC and Iwan Setyawan’s 9 Summers 10 Autumns film. They both strongly convince me that putting your dreams into realization is the best goal to live a life.

When you’re in your 20s and have that leadership gene, the bad thing is that you don’t know when to shut up. You think you know all the answers, but you don’t. What you learn later is when to just listen to everybody else. I’m finding that all those adages about being humble and listening are truer and truer as I get older. Creativity cannot explode if you do not have the ability to step back, take in what everybody else says and then fuse it with your own ideas.

Francesca Zambello

14 Ways to Acquire Knowledge: A Timeless Guide from 1936

  1. PRACTICE

Consider the knowledge you already have — the things you really know you can do. They are the things you have done over and over; practiced them so often that they became second nature. Every normal person knows how to walk and talk. But he could never have acquired this knowledge without practice. For the young child can’t do the things that are easy to older people without first doing them over and over and over.

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Most of us quit on the first or second attempt. But the man who is really going to be educated, who intends toknow, is going to stay with it until it is done. Practice!

  1. ASK

Any normal child, at about the age of three or four, reaches the asking period, the time when that quickly developing brain is most eager for knowledge. “When?” “Where?” “How?” “What?” and “Why?” begs the child — but all too often the reply is “Keep still!” “Leave me alone!” “Don’t be a pest!”

Those first bitter refusals to our honest questions of childhood all too often squelch our “Asking faculty.” We grow up to be men and women, still eager for knowledge, but afraid and ashamed to ask in order to get it.

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Every person possessing knowledge is more than willing to communicate what he knows to any serious, sincere person who asks. The question never makes the asker seem foolish or childish — rather, to ask is to command the respect of the other person who in the act of helping you is drawn closer to you, likes you better and will go out of his way on any future occasion to share his knowledge with you.

Ask! When you ask, you have to be humble. You have to admit you don’t know! But what’s so terrible about that? Everybody knows that no man knows everything, and to ask is merely to let the other know that you are honest about things pertaining to knowledge.

  1. DESIRE

You never learn much until you really want to learn. A million people have said: “Gee, I wish I were musical!” “If I only could do that!” or “How I wish I had a good education!” But they were only talking words — they didn’t mean it.

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Desire is the foundation of all learning and you can only climb up the ladder of knowledge by desiring to learn.

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If you don’t desire to learn you’re either a num-skull [sic] or a “know-it-all.” And the world wants nothing to do with either type of individual.

  1. GET IT FROM YOURSELF

You may be surprised to hear that you already know a great deal! It’s all inside you — it’s all there — you couldn’t live as long as you have and not be full of knowledge.

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Most of your knowledge, however — and this is the great difference between non-education and education — is not in shape to be used, you haven’t it on the tip of your tongue. It’s hidden, buried away down inside of you — and because you can’t see it, you think it isn’t there.

Knowledge is knowledge only when it takes a shape, when it can be put into words, or reduced to a principle — and it’s now up to you to go to work on your own gold mine, to refine the crude ore.

  1. WALK AROUND IT

Any time you see something new or very special, if the thing is resting on the ground, as your examination and inspection proceeds, you find that you eventuallywalk around it. You desire to know the thing better by looking at it from all angles.

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To acquire knowledge walk around the thing studied. The thing is not only what you touch, what you see; it has many other sides, many other conditions, many other relations which you cannot know until you study it form all angles.

The narrow mind stays rooted in one spot; the broad mind is free, inquiring, unprejudiced; it seeks to learn “both sides of the story.”

Don’t screen of from your own consciousness the bigger side of your work. Don’t be afraid you’ll harm yourself if you have to change a preconceived opinion. Have a free, broad, open mind! Be fair to the thing studied as well as to yourself. When it comes up for your examination, walk around it! The short trip will bring long knowledge.

  1. EXPERIMENT

The world honors the man who is eager to plant new seeds of study today so he may harvest a fresh crop of knowledge tomorrow. The world is sick of the man who is always harking back to the past and thinks everything wroth knowing has already been learned. … Respect the past, take what it offers, but don’t live in it.

To learn, experiment! Try something new. See what happens. Lindbergh experimented when he flew the Atlantic. Pasteur experimented with bacteria and made cow’s milk safe for the human race. Franklin experimented with a kite and introduced electricity.

The greatest experiment is nearly always a solo. The individual, seeking to learn, tries something new but only tries it on himself. If he fails, he has hurt only himself. If he succeeds he has made a discovery many people can use. Experiment only with your own time, your own money, your own labor. That’s the honest, sincere type of experiment. It’s rich. The cheap experiment is to use other people’s money, other people’s destinies, other people’s bodies as if they were guinea pigs.

  1. TEACH

If you would have knowledge, knowledge sure and sound, teach. Teach your children, teach your associates, teach your friends. In the very act of teaching, you will learn far more than your best pupil.

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Knowledge is relative; you possess it in degrees. You know more about reading, writing, and arithmetic than your young child. But teach that child at every opportunity; try to pass on to him all you know, and the very attempt will produce a great deal more knowledge inside your own brain.

  1. READ

From time immemorial it has been commonly understood that the best way to acquire knowledge was to read. That is not true. Reading is only one way to knowledge, and in the writer’s opinion, not the best way. But you can surely learn from reading if you read in the proper manner.

What you read is important, but not all important. How you read is the main consideration. For if you knowhow to read, there’s a world of education even in the newspapers, the magazines, on a single billboard or a stray advertising dodger.

Th secret of good reading is this: read critically!

Somebody wrote that stuff you’re reading. It was a definite individual, working with a pen, pencil or typewriter — the writing came from his mind and hisonly. If you were face to face with him and listening instead of reading, you would be a great deal more critical than the average reader is. Listening, you would weigh his personality, you would form some judgment about his truthfulness, his ability. But reading, you drop all judgment, and swallow his words whole — just as if the act printing the thing made it true!

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If you must read in order to acquire knowledge, read critically. Believe nothing till it’s understood, till it’s clearly proven.

  1. WRITE

To know it — write it! If your’e writing to explain, you’re explaining it to yourself! If you’re writing to inspire,you’re inspiring yourself! If your’e writing to record, you’re recording it on your own memory. how often you have written something down in order to be sure you would have a record of it, only to find that you never needed the written record because you had learned it by heart!

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The men of the best memories are those who make notes, who write things down. They just don’t write to remember, they write to learn. And because they DO learn by writing, they seldom need to consult their notes, they have brilliant, amazing memories. How different from the glib, slipshod individual who is too proud or too lazy to write, who trusts everything to memory, forgets so easily, and possesses so little real knowledge.

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Write! Writing, to knowledge, is a certified check. Youknow what you know once you have written it down!

  1. LISTEN

You have a pair of ears — use them! When the other man talks, give him a chance. Pay attention. If you listen you may hear something useful to you. If you listen you may receive a warning that is worth following. If you listen, you may ear the respect of those whose respect you prize.

Pay attention to the person speaking. Contemplate the meaning of his words, the nature of his thoughts. Grasp and retain the truth.

Of all the ways to acquire knowledge, this way requires least effort on your part. You hardly have to do any work. You are bound to pick up information. It’s easy, it’s surefire.

  1. OBSERVE

Keep your eyes open. There are things happening, all around you, all the time. The scene of events is interesting, illuminating, full of news and meaning. It’s a great show — an impressive parade of things worth knowing. Admission is free — keep your eyes open.

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There are only two kinds of experience: the experience of ourselves and the experience of others. Our own experience is slow, labored, costly, and often hard to bear. The experience of others is a ready-made set of directions on knowledge and life. Their experience is free; we need suffer none of their hardships; we may collect on all their good deeds. All we have to do isobserve!

Observe! Especially the good man, the valorous deed. Observe the winner that you yourself may strive to follow that winning example and learn the scores of different means and devices that make success possible.

Observe! Observe the loser that you may escape his mistakes, aroid the pitfalls that dragged him down.

Observe the listless, indifferent, neutral people who do nothing, know nothing, are nothing. Observe them and then differ from them.

  1. PUT IN ORDER

Order is Heaven’s first law. And the only good knowledge is orderly knowledge! You must put your information and your thoughts in order before you can effectively handle your own knowledge. Otherwise you will jump around in conversation like a grasshopper, your arguments will be confused and distributed, your brain will be in a dizzy whirl all the time.

  1. DEFINE

A definition is a statement about a thing which includes everything the thing is and excludes everything it is not.

A definition of a chair must include every chair, whether it be kitchen chair, a high chair, a dentist’s chair, or the electric chair, It must exclude everything which isn’t a chair, even those things which come close, such as a stool, a bench, a sofa.

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I am sorry to state that until you can so define chair or door (or a thousand other everyday familiar objects)you don’t really know what these things are. You have the ability to recognize them and describe them but you can’t tell what their nature is. You knowledge is notexact.

  1. REASON

Animals have knowledge. But only men can reason.The better you can reason the farther you separate yourself from animals.

The process by which you reason is known as logic. Logic teaches you how to derive a previously unknown truth from the facts already at hand. Logic teaches you how to be sure whether what you think is true is really true.

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Logic is the supreme avenue to intellectual truth. Don’t ever despair of possessing a logical mind. You don’t have to study it for years, read books and digest a mountain of data. All you have to remember is one word — compare.

Compare all points in a proposition. Note the similarity— that tells you something new. NOte the difference — that tells you something new. Then take the new things you’ve found and check them against established laws or principles. This is logic. This is reason. This is knowledge in its highest form.

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Etika dan (mata kuliah) Agama

Meet Ibu Retno Mamoto, dosen mata kuliah wajib Bahasa Inggris. She’s uber cool! Fashionable di usianya yang (sepertinya) sudah lewat setengah abad, menulis setiap detil dari murid barunya mulai nama, asal SMA, jurusan, hingga bagaimana a turkish last name bisa jadi nama belakangku plus cara mengajarnya jauh dari metode konvensional yang teacher-centered. She does encourage us to speak english, to freely express ourselves, and give meaningful inputs on daily life.

Kejadiannya seperti ini. Ada seorang temanku yang mengeja nama panggilannya lalu ditertawakan teman-temanku yang lainnya. She stopped and firmly said: that’s insulting! Menertawakan nama orang lain itu nggak menghargai namanya. Kalian nggak peka dan nggak punya etika! Nggak bisa kalian terus menerus terbiasa dengan etika lama yang nama, nama orangtua dijadikan bahan candaan. Tidak boleh itu terjadi lagi di kelas saya!

Holy moly! She’s my instant favorite! I experienced the same thing during my elementary years even ‘till I enter college. Disini bisa dihitung dengan jari siapa-siapa yang tidak ‘mempermainkan’ nama lengkapku. haha *kenapa jadi drama?* No, seriously. I had a year when people never laughed at my names. a year in abroad, where names must not be a joke.

Impresi kedua, ketika satu temanku yang lain sedang mengeja namanya dengan bahasa inggris namun terbata-bata. Seperti kebiasaan murid di Indonesia yang kalau temannya ‘tidak bisa’ menjawab satu pertanyaan dengan semangat gotong royong kita ngebantuin dia.

It’s a big no no for Ibu Retno. She stopped again, and said in a quite loud voice: Saya tanya satu orang, kenapa kalian yang jawab semua? Let me have a personal contact with my student, please. Yang kalian lakukan ini men-discourage orang untuk ngomong. Kebiasaan buruk yang harus diubah juga mulai dari kelas saya. Kebiasaan, saya tanya “kamu umurnya berapa, dik?” yang nyamber jawab ibunya “enam tahun”. Nggak ada lagi seperti itu di kelas saya! Biarkan dia menjawab sendiri apa yang saya tanyakan. Kapan bisa maju kalau ngomong sendiri aja dilarang. Ini namanya demokratisasi. Biarkan orang lain beropini. Bukan politik saja yang berdemokrasi, pendidikan pun harus begitu.

Hidup Ibu Retno!

Oh. but there is something disturbing after Ibu Retno’s class. Welcome to Mata Kuliah Wajib Agama. I got new classmates and the girls are constantly having running commentary on this and that. mamma mia. baru kusadari setelahnya, those disturbing voices adalah produksi dari mereka datang dari program studi yang sama. Nasib lah aku yang minor ini. Peer group ini memang luarbiasa boosting one’s confidence. Coba mereka masuk kelas baru dan sendiri, apa yang terjadi? Kicep. People are even reluctantly greeting hi.

Nggak, nggak salah. Cuma nggak menyenangkan aja. Apalagi kalau dosennya kemudian absen. Lebih baik pelajaran / mata kuliah agama memang ditiadakan. Ganti dengan mata kuliah / pelajaran Etika. Supaya tahu bahwa kebebasanmu berekspresi (read: having running commentary in a loud voice where others are sitting close to you is such an impolite manner) dibatasi oleh hak orang lain untuk merasakan suasana tenang di dalam satu ruangan.

Demikian, sepenggal kisah dari hari pertama di semester 2 :)